Love Is Patient, Love Is Kind
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV
The Definition of Love
In one of the most iconic passages in the Bible, the apostle Paul writes about the true meaning of love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. This passage is often read at weddings and is considered a beautiful description of the kind of love that God intends for us to have.
Love Is Patient, Love Is Kind
4 Love is patient, love is kind. (NIV)
These two verbs, "patient" and "kind," set the tone for the rest of the passage. Love is not impulsive or reckless, but rather it is slow to anger and quick to forgive. Love is also kind, seeking the best for others and looking for ways to show compassion and generosity.
It Does Not Envy, It Does Not Boast
5 It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. (NIV)
Love is not motivated by jealousy or a desire to one-up others. It is not boastful or proud, seeking to draw attention to itself. Instead, love is humble and servant-hearted, looking for ways to lift up others.
It Is Not Rude, It Is Not Self-Seeking
6 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. (NIV)
Love is not rude or discourteous, but rather polite and respectful. It is not self-seeking, looking for ways to benefit itself, but instead seeks the good of others. Love is also not easily angered, and when wronged, it keeps no record of the offense.
Love Rejoices with the Truth
7 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. (NIV)
Love rejoices when truth and justice prevail. It is not a feel-good sentiment, but rather a deep commitment to what is right and good. When the truth is upheld, love celebrates with joy.
In these four verses, Paul gives us a beautiful picture of what love looks like in action. It is patient, kind, humble, and selfless. May we strive to demonstrate this kind of love in our relationships with others.
