100 Hard Questions to Ask Your Friends About Yourself
Sometimes, it's hard to get an honest opinion from ourselves. We might be too close to the situation, or too biased towards our own thoughts and feelings. That's where our friends come in – they can offer a fresh perspective, and help us see ourselves in a new light. But, asking the right questions is key. Here are 100 hard questions to ask your friends about yourself:
Personal Growth
1. What do you think is my greatest strength?
2. Where do you think I could improve the most?
3. Am I too hard on myself?
4. Do I take too many risks or play it too safe?
5. Would you consider me a positive influence on those around me?
Relationships
6. Am I a good listener?
7. Do I prioritize my relationships with others?
8. Am I too clingy or needy?
9. Do I have healthy boundaries with others?
10. Would you consider me a loyal friend?
Career and Ambition
11. Am I following my true passion?
12. Do I set achievable goals for myself?
13. Am I too afraid to take the leap and try new things?
14. Do I surround myself with people who support my ambitions?
15. Would you consider me driven and motivated?
Self-Awareness
16. What do you think I'm most insecure about?
17. Am I honest with myself about my flaws?
18. Do I have a growth mindset or a fixed mindset?
19. Am I too self-critical?
20. Would you consider me self-aware?
Habits and Routines
21. Do I have healthy habits and routines?
22. Am I disciplined with my time and priorities?
23. Do I take care of my physical and mental health?
24. Am I too reliant on bad habits?
25. Would you consider me consistent in my daily routine?
Communication
26. Am I a clear and effective communicator?
27. Do I listen actively and respond thoughtfully?
28. Am I too passive or aggressive in my communication?
29. Do I ask for help when I need it?
30. Would you consider me a good conversationalist?
Emotional Intelligence
31. Am I emotionally intelligent?
32. Do I understand and recognize my emotions?
33. Am I empathetic towards others?
34. Do I take responsibility for my emotions and actions?
35. Would you consider me emotionally mature?
Values and Principles
36. What do you think are my core values?
37. Do I live according to my principles?
38. Am I true to myself and my beliefs?
39. Do I stand up for what I believe in?
40. Would you consider me a person of integrity?
Creativity and Inspiration
41. Am I creative and open to new ideas?
42. Do I inspire others through my words and actions?
43. Am I too critical of myself and others?
44. Do I take the time to appreciate the beauty in life?
45. Would you consider me an original thinker?
Self-Care
46. Do I prioritize self-care?
47. Am I kind to myself?
48. Do I take breaks and practice self-compassion?
49. Am I too hard on myself when I make mistakes?
50. Would you consider me a good friend to myself?
Money and Finances
51. Am I responsible with my finances?
52. Do I save and budget wisely?
53. Am I too materialistic?
54. Do I value experiences over possessions?
55. Would you consider me financially savvy?
Goals and Aspirations
56. What do you think are my long-term goals?
57. Am I focused on achieving my dreams?
58. Do I set realistic and achievable goals?
59. Am I too afraid to fail?
60. Would you consider me driven to succeed?
Friendships
61. Am I a good friend?
62. Do I make an effort to stay in touch with friends?
63. Am I supportive and encouraging of my friends?
64. Do I have healthy friendships?
65. Would you consider me a loyal friend?
Romantic Relationships
66. Am I too pick
