Submitting to Husbands: A Calling for Wives
1 Peter 3:1-6 NKJV
In this passage, the apostle Peter addresses the role of wives in their relationships with their husbands. He emphasizes the importance of submission and respect in the marriage union.
Wives, Be Submissive
"Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives,"
(1 Peter 3:1 NKJV)
Here, Peter encourages wives to submit to their husbands, not because they are inferior or weak, but because it is a way of showing love and respect to their partners. This submission is not about surrendering one's autonomy or dignity, but about creating a harmonious and peaceful marriage.
The Power of a Quiet Spirit
"when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear."
(1 Peter 3:2 NKJV)
Peter highlights the importance of a quiet spirit in winning over an unbelieving husband. A wife's chaste conduct, accompanied by a quiet and respectful demeanor, can be a powerful witness to her husband, even if he is not a believer.
The Beauty of a Gentle and Quiet Spirit
"Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel—"
(1 Peter 3:3 NKJV)
Peter contrasts the outward beauty of physical adornment with the inner beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. While outward beauty is fleeting, inner beauty is a quality that endures and is truly valuable in the eyes of God.
The Heart of a True Beauty
"but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God."
(1 Peter 3:4 NKJV)
In this verse, Peter emphasizes the importance of inner beauty, which is rooted in a gentle and quiet spirit. This is the true beauty that is precious in the sight of God.
A Legacy of Faith
"For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their husbands,"
(1 Peter 3:5 NKJV)
Peter reminds wives that they are part of a long legacy of holy women who trusted in God and lived lives of submission and obedience. These women, including Sarah, who called her husband Abraham "lord" (Genesis 18:12), are examples of faith and obedience.
Do Not Fear
"as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror."
(1 Peter 3:6 NKJV)
In conclusion, Peter encourages wives to submit to their husbands, not out of fear, but out of reverence for God and a desire to honor their partners. By living lives of obedience and faith, they can create a legacy of faith that will outlast them.
