Love is Patient and Kind
In 1 Corinthians 13:4-6, the apostle Paul writes about the characteristics of love. This passage is one of the most beloved and well-known in the Bible, and its words have brought comfort and guidance to countless Christians throughout the centuries.
Love is Patient
Love is patient and kind; (1 Corinthians 13:4a, ESV)
The first characteristic of love that Paul mentions is patience. Love is not impatient or quick to anger. It does not get frustrated or irritated easily. Instead, it is willing to wait and endure, even in the face of difficulties or challenges.
Love is Kind
love is kind; (1 Corinthians 13:4b, ESV)
The second characteristic of love is kindness. Love is not harsh or cruel. It does not seek to hurt or harm others. Instead, it is gentle and considerate, always looking for ways to show compassion and care.
Envy and Boasting
it does not envy or boast. (1 Corinthians 13:4c, ESV)
Paul also mentions that love does not envy or boast. Love is not jealous of what others have, nor does it seek to draw attention to itself. It is not proud or arrogant, but rather humble and modest.
Rude and Self-Seeking
It is not rude or self-seeking, (1 Corinthians 13:5a, ESV)
Love is not rude or impolite. It does not seek to elevate itself above others, nor does it look out only for its own interests. Instead, it is courteous and respectful, always considering the needs and feelings of others.
Irritable or Resentful
it is not irritable or resentful; (1 Corinthians 13:5b, ESV)
Love is not irritable or resentful. It does not get angry or bitter, nor does it hold grudges or harbor resentment. Instead, it is calm and forgiving, always seeking to resolve conflicts and restore relationships.
Keeps No Record of Wrongs
it keeps no record of wrongs; (1 Corinthians 13:5c, ESV)
Finally, love keeps no record of wrongs. It does not dwell on past hurts or mistakes. Instead, it forgives and forgets, always looking forward to a brighter future.
In conclusion, 1 Corinthians 13:4-6 reminds us that love is not just a feeling, but a choice. It is a decision to act with patience, kindness, and compassion, even when it is difficult. May we strive to love one another in this way, just as Christ has loved us.
